Comments for Girl - as is http://girlasis.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Wed, 15 Apr 2009 19:12:23 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Six Months by LLD http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2009/04/11/six-months/#comment-17 LLD Wed, 15 Apr 2009 19:12:23 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2009/04/11/six-months/#comment-17 I thought that Prop 8 was the end of your online writing days... glad to see you back I thought that Prop 8 was the end of your online writing days… glad to see you back

]]> Comment on I’m a Mommy (again) by Kim http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/29/im-a-mommy-again/#comment-16 Kim Wed, 25 Feb 2009 20:41:00 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-16 Hi Nicole, Congrats on your puppy, my nephew had a bulldog and he was quite naughty but most of that was due to them working all the time and not teaching him anything. While they were at work he would be tied up in his kennel mainly because he was always trying to fight with their bull mastiff, my husband and i felt sorry for this dog but they ended up giving him to one of their friends who have a female bulldog and he is so much better now because he is getting the attention that he needed. He's a completely different dog. Some people should not have dogs like my nephew. So happy puppy training and good luck he looks gorgeous. Kim Hi Nicole,

Congrats on your puppy, my nephew had a bulldog and he was quite naughty but most of that was due to them working all the time and not teaching him anything. While they were at work he would be tied up in his kennel mainly because he was always trying to fight with their bull mastiff, my husband and i felt sorry for this dog but they ended up giving him to one of their friends who have a female bulldog and he is so much better now because he is getting the attention that he needed. He’s a completely different dog. Some people should not have dogs like my nephew. So happy puppy training and good luck he looks gorgeous.
Kim

]]> Comment on Change by writerpurple15 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/29/change/#comment-15 writerpurple15 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 08:21:27 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=81#comment-15 Hi Nicole, I understand how change can be really hard to move with. I've discovered change happens whether I want it to. With the major changes in my life, I'll take moments and think about how these changes have affected me as a person. Despite some of these changes were good for me, I really like it when my life is boring and there is no drama. I hope your changes in life make you happy. Take Care, Kelli Hi Nicole,

I understand how change can be really hard to move with. I’ve discovered change happens whether I want it to. With the major changes in my life, I’ll take moments and think about how these changes have affected me as a person. Despite some of these changes were good for me, I really like it when my life is boring and there is no drama.

I hope your changes in life make you happy.

Take Care,
Kelli

]]> Comment on Goodbye Nicole by Kelli http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/06/goodbye-nicole/#comment-14 Kelli Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:48:39 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=68#comment-14 Hi Nicole, It is always good to evolve and live an authentic life. The most important thing in life is to be happy. Making these changes are great, I applaud you for having the courage to move forward and do something different. Take Care, Kelli Hi Nicole,
It is always good to evolve and live an authentic life. The most important thing in life is to be happy. Making these changes are great, I applaud you for having the courage to move forward and do something different.
Take Care,
Kelli

]]> Comment on I’m a Mommy (again) by Kelli http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/29/im-a-mommy-again/#comment-13 Kelli Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:38:25 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-13 Hi Nicole, Congrats on the new pup. English bulldogs are so cute and Argus is a great name. I have 3 Rottweilers. My female Rottweiler is my most difficult one. She bit me when she was a puppy too. And at 3 mos old, her bites were sharp. I thought to myself she's just going to get bigger and stronger. Her bites are going to crush my hand, so I had to figure out how to stop her from biting me. I learned that I had to bite her like a momma dog would do with her pups. So with my hand I squeezed her head not real tight just enough pressure where she released my hand. I made sure I was calm, but assertive when I did this. I didn't say anything, I just communicated with Daisy with my energy of calm/assertiveness. About a week of this and she stopped biting me. Another thing I learned to help pups with teething was ice cubes. My pups loved chewing on ice cubes, during this time and it stopped them from chewing on anything and everything for a bit. I understand about the lack of sleep with a new pup. Boy dogs take so much longer to sleep overnight. The vet never explained why this is, but I hope you can take naps throughout the day. Take Care, Kelli Hi Nicole,
Congrats on the new pup. English bulldogs are so cute and Argus is a great name. I have 3 Rottweilers. My female Rottweiler is my most difficult one. She bit me when she was a puppy too. And at 3 mos old, her bites were sharp. I thought to myself she’s just going to get bigger and stronger. Her bites are going to crush my hand, so I had to figure out how to stop her from biting me.

I learned that I had to bite her like a momma dog would do with her pups. So with my hand I squeezed her head not real tight just enough pressure where she released my hand. I made sure I was calm, but assertive when I did this. I didn’t say anything, I just communicated with Daisy with my energy of calm/assertiveness. About a week of this and she stopped biting me.

Another thing I learned to help pups with teething was ice cubes. My pups loved chewing on ice cubes, during this time and it stopped them from chewing on anything and everything for a bit.

I understand about the lack of sleep with a new pup. Boy dogs take so much longer to sleep overnight. The vet never explained why this is, but I hope you can take naps throughout the day.

Take Care,
Kelli

]]> Comment on Goodbye Nicole by Kaia http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/06/goodbye-nicole/#comment-12 Kaia Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:58:26 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=68#comment-12 I still think you are an beautiful awesome person no matter what. I think you and your husband make a awesome couple and you are the only couple i watch mainly because i think its your chemistry you guys really look great together. Voodoo has that loving look in his eyes (gorgeous eyes at that) when he looks at you that he really loves you, you don't see that with other pornstars. I think as a couple you rock and i hope you enjoy being Mel now and i think you are still a beautiful person inside and out , with or without makeup on. Voodoo is an absolute babe and together you are awesome. I still think you are an beautiful awesome person no matter what. I think you and your husband make a awesome couple and you are the only couple i watch mainly because i think its your chemistry you guys really look great together. Voodoo has that loving look in his eyes (gorgeous eyes at that) when he looks at you that he really loves you, you don’t see that with other pornstars. I think as a couple you rock and i hope you enjoy being Mel now and i think you are still a beautiful person inside and out , with or without makeup on. Voodoo is an absolute babe and together you are awesome.

]]> Comment on Goodbye Nicole by Georga http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/10/06/goodbye-nicole/#comment-11 Georga Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:45:32 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=68#comment-11 Hmmm.... Doing interviews for Adultmaven.com, Diamond Couture and I have always tried (and we get criticized for this horribly) to show that porn stars are more than their job and more than who they appear to be on screen. I have talked to a number of adult performers (outside of the interviews) and found most of them to be very well spoken, educated, and smart. For the life of me I do not understand why people expect porn stars, or anyone for that matter, to be a certain way and get disappointed when someone doesn't live up to their expectations. Who says a porn star can't be smart? I have talked to several with degrees who have gone into porn because it pays better than the corporate world they prepared themselves for or because it gives them a certain freedom they don't have in that world or for whatever other reason. Not one of them has told me they regretted the decision to go into porn. Maybe there is some truth to porn objectifying people, I don't know. I tend to think it's more that people are really that superficial and self-centered and don't really care about anything or anyone outside of their personal bubble. If something goes against how they set it up in their personal reality they can't accept it, don't have time for it, and don't want to take the time to get to understand why it really is that way and their perception is wrong. Hmmm….
Doing interviews for Adultmaven.com, Diamond Couture and I have always tried (and we get criticized for this horribly) to show that porn stars are more than their job and more than who they appear to be on screen. I have talked to a number of adult performers (outside of the interviews) and found most of them to be very well spoken, educated, and smart. For the life of me I do not understand why people expect porn stars, or anyone for that matter, to be a certain way and get disappointed when someone doesn’t live up to their expectations. Who says a porn star can’t be smart? I have talked to several with degrees who have gone into porn because it pays better than the corporate world they prepared themselves for or because it gives them a certain freedom they don’t have in that world or for whatever other reason. Not one of them has told me they regretted the decision to go into porn. Maybe there is some truth to porn objectifying people, I don’t know. I tend to think it’s more that people are really that superficial and self-centered and don’t really care about anything or anyone outside of their personal bubble. If something goes against how they set it up in their personal reality they can’t accept it, don’t have time for it, and don’t want to take the time to get to understand why it really is that way and their perception is wrong.

]]> Comment on What Is A Grown Up by Georga http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/09/02/what-is-a-grown-up/#comment-10 Georga Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:19:03 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=3#comment-10 I just read through all your blog entries and there is so much I want to say, so much I could say, but I would sound like I am rambling. I will say this, at almost 40 I don't have it all figured out, I don't know what I want to be when I grow up outside of a responsible and respectable adult. I have a very dear friend who is a few years older than me who feels the same way. I don't think life ever turns out how we expect it it. I had my life planned out, how it was going to be, and that is not what happened. I ended up getting married to someone I never expected to meet, dropping out of college because of a high risk pregnancy and now I am raising two children with autism, a third with celiac disease, a fourth with asthma and so many life threatening food allergies food actually scares the living hell out of me (I still stand by the notion that food is needed to keep us healthy, not kill us, but someone didn't tell her that), my fifth child has a processing disorder that the doctors think was caused by brain damage due to lead poisoning when she was younger. My other two children are pretty much normal. My point, sometimes life just has different plans for us than the ones we make for ourselves. I like to think that there are reasons for it all, we just don't know what they are. People who seem to have it all together are just putting on a show to make the rest of us feel bad ;0). I just read through all your blog entries and there is so much I want to say, so much I could say, but I would sound like I am rambling. I will say this, at almost 40 I don’t have it all figured out, I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up outside of a responsible and respectable adult. I have a very dear friend who is a few years older than me who feels the same way. I don’t think life ever turns out how we expect it it. I had my life planned out, how it was going to be, and that is not what happened. I ended up getting married to someone I never expected to meet, dropping out of college because of a high risk pregnancy and now I am raising two children with autism, a third with celiac disease, a fourth with asthma and so many life threatening food allergies food actually scares the living hell out of me (I still stand by the notion that food is needed to keep us healthy, not kill us, but someone didn’t tell her that), my fifth child has a processing disorder that the doctors think was caused by brain damage due to lead poisoning when she was younger. My other two children are pretty much normal. My point, sometimes life just has different plans for us than the ones we make for ourselves. I like to think that there are reasons for it all, we just don’t know what they are. People who seem to have it all together are just putting on a show to make the rest of us feel bad ;0).

]]> Comment on Energy by Damaris http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/09/08/energy/#comment-9 Damaris Fri, 03 Oct 2008 17:37:23 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-9 I totally related to this, just wanted to let you know I really enjoy reading your blogs!! You go girl!! I totally related to this, just wanted to let you know I really enjoy reading your blogs!! You go girl!!

]]> Comment on My sister’s wedding by Love Letter Dave http://girlasis.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/my-sisters-wedding/#comment-8 Love Letter Dave Thu, 11 Sep 2008 06:52:04 +0000 http://girlasis.wordpress.com/?p=44#comment-8 Hun, I think you're doing the right thing. It may be hard for your family to realize, but you're doing what YOU know is right. I'm sure that if you explain your situation to your sister as you have in your blog... you'll be just fine LLD Hun, I think you’re doing the right thing. It may be hard for your family to realize, but you’re doing what YOU know is right. I’m sure that if you explain your situation to your sister as you have in your blog… you’ll be just fine

LLD

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